Hen’s Nite Party

The ladies were telling me that they have booked a room at Pasir Ris Chalet.
Instead they blindfolded me and walk me up to the room at Marina Mandarin.
They even ‘bak kat’ with eric!

Im seriously warned not to upload any of the unglam photos in facebook.

Some pictures which i think are quite decent..

Chiew Hong designed this poster and made me wear it around.

Nice view!

Coincidentally there is fireworks! Can see clearly from our room.
Thanks to my JMs who have planned and helped me so much on my Wedding Day.
A big thank you to you 7 Loves.

Open Toe Stockings

Most Wedding heels are open toes.
What if you have wear a short gown and want to have a perfect looking pair of legs?

The solution!!
OPEN TOE STOCKINGS!! (Picture below for reference, i know it’s quite disgusting, it looks like a man’s legs!)
Not everywhere sells it. I got mine at Metro Paragon.
Very cheap only.. like $1+?
It’s really a saviour!

Save-The-Date

A save the date is a notice stating the date of a significant event such as a wedding. It is typically sent to those likely to be interested or affected by the event and states the planned date of the occasion so that recipients who wish to attend know to keep that date free.

For weddings, save the dates usually take the form of a card, but can also be a refrigerator magnet or similar item. They are generally sent out at least six to twelve months before the wedding date, and are usually followed by a formal wedding invitation.

From Wikipedia

This was inspired by some design which i saw while random surfing around.
And so… I modify abit here and there and da tahh!!

My save-the-date design before we took our photoshoot =)

Some random designs.
Actually wanna print out a poster to place at the hotel but we didnt la.
We have alot of ideas while planning, but when the date get nearer, we don’t have time for all these!

Wedding Gowns and Suits

Selecting of Gowns for AD.
I didnt ask along too many friends because i know it will make me more confuse.
Just Eric and May (who is very honest one)
Bring along your nubra so that you know how the gown fits exactly.

Nubra is magical. Dont worry if you cant wear it right, the MUA or coordinator are pro!!
Just remember:-
-do not put perfume or powder
-wipe your boobies before putting on the magical bra
-if you have already stick on and remove again, check the stickiness. If it is not as sticky,
wash with warm water and wait for it to air dry
-put in the box after use
-Google or youtube more on it!

These are the shortlisted ones. Dint take photos of other designs that i’ve tried.

Wedding Gown Choice 1

Love the top part.
Actually this picture show no justice to the gown. It’s actually quite blink on the bottom!
But the tiers and ribbons look like curtain and the shape and support is not there.

Wedding Gown Choice 2
This is my selected piece.
It looks pretty normal but after trying so many,  i am still more comfortable with this.
Like what people said, you will know which gown to choose once you have fitted on. =)
There is embriodery and beads on the top, bottom also has some beads.

I am very sure i don’t want pink, red, orange purple.. all these range of colours.
I wanted royal blue for my Evening Gown.
But i cant find one design that suit me well.

Evening Gown Choice 1

Really like the heart shape design and colour! Almost perfect.
Too bad all feedback that it looks more like D&D dress.

Evening Gown Choice 2

I really like this gown, except that i wish the colour is not in gold cause it doesnt complement my skin tone well.
But i guess it matches quite well in the ballroom against the red walls.

ROM short gown
Very Sweet, again, this picture show no justice to the blink!!
Anyway this is the only piece that suit me really well and nice on me.

Teadress- Kua
Opt for a Kua, kinda big on me..
But ok la.. wear awhile only. Match it with a Kua heels!
Too bad the PG dint capture it.

And this is my hand bouquet.
While some prefer to have brighter colours, i prefer pale colour- white or champagne roses
I find it more classy, you cant see it from the pic, but there are little plastic/crystal ‘droplets’ tied together.

The day before wedding day, Eric went to collect the bouquet and realised the florist has forgotten the ‘droplets’.
I’m glad that Eric still remember my request! He even request the florist to change the ribbon to blue~
HAhahaha!!! *LOVES*

Here is Eric’s white suit.
He wore it with a bow in the evening and a tie in the morning.
(Weird. Why is he wearing a watch?!)

This is our favourite suit. Abit Korean style.
He wore this for our solemnisation.

And this is the black gown he rented from Bridalcloset.
Because the black suit which he like from Cangai is too fitting for him.
Actually we can do without the black suit since the Korean style suit is pretty decent,
but black suit seems more formal and appropriate for Dinner March in.

Coincidentally, my brother is smaller built, and cant find any from the brothers range,
So he wore Eric’s one.

Look at the feather badge.. jay chou wananbe? =P

Parts & Parcel of our Wedding

Have been procrastinating to blog. But suddenly got mood to blog now.. especially when i realised i have a few draft!! oh my!! 9 mths after my wedding and i haven publish my post…. my thank you notes to everyone..

As friends around me are getting hitched, and i have received PM and smses in regard to wedding preparation, i think i should blog down as much as i can remember.

I would say that i really miss the process of wedding preparation, these are memories which i want to have even when i’m old.

ok.. here goes.. more on our wedding!! (Random)

This is the design i choose from the book. Request for without the round ring.

The actual set of customise nails. Seriously, it turn out nicer than i have expected.
It came with a free roll of tape, i think i did not use enough that’s why it dropped.

Still ok la hor? i took off immediately after the dinner so that i can count my angbao, pack my things and wash my hair in peace!
Trust me, with long nails it’s a big hassle!

We have much choices when come to nails. I’ve tried gelish and acrylic nail extension and i don’t really like it.
They just don’t last on my fingers. And the aftermath is depressing.

Coincidentally, we came across this booth at BOWS, which have good promo for customise fake nails.

Advantages:-
1) For ladies with uneven nail shape.
2) Can use as long as the nail can last.
3) Crystals can be replaced for free
4) Can remove the next day after wedding for honeymoon!

Disadvantage:-
I love crystals and bling, but it is really expensive. Price approx $400 and above.
I went to the shop alone and spent much time there as i cannot decide.
I called Eric hoping that he will sponsor the design which i like but he has no signs of sponsoring. *Bleah*
Anyway i am glad that i chose the one within my budget because i only used once which is on my wedding day!
And i almost got heart attack, cos just 1 hour prior to my solemnisation, i realised I dropped 1 ‘nail’!!!!!!!!
And i dont even know where i dropped!! Thank God, Eric managed to found it.
I duno how he did it… I guessed he turn the hotel suite upside down, trace back where i went and what i did..
HE FOUND MY TINY LITTLE NAIL.

Eric bought 2 new pairs of shoes for himself.
1 white 1 black. Spent more than $100/pair and he only wear the white one ONCE.
Even though he knows that the chances of him wearing again is almost zero, he still bought.
Hiao.

Tips: It’s good to have 2 sets of teapot set. One for each family so that you dont have to bring the set around.
I borrowed this from my cousin, this was my first love design. So I’m very happy that my cousin actually has it!
In addition, she have the bowl set in the same design too!!

Oranges, Liquor & misc things which Eric brought along for GDL.
Tips: Buy the liquor at DFS or find any possible contacts you have, like friends working in bar etc.
If your parents are fine, bring the liquor along to the banquet dinner. Just a little note, if the bottles are bought from DFS, they cannot be bring into the banquet ballroom, drinks will be poured at the cocktail area.

Pork Trotters Can. Can’t remember how many we bought.. 2 dozens or more i think..
Tips: Buy when there is discount! It’s ok to buy and keep one. You can save quite abit.

Portion of our GDL cakes. I really like the packaging.
http://www.sweetestmoments.com.sg/
They don’t sell any cake at the shop, however you can request for free sample to taste.

We were comparing between Pine garden and Sweetest Moments. Though we have no doubt with PG, however when we were there at the shop, nobody serve us, we were only looking at the catalogues by ourselves. Of course this is not the main reason why we chose SM.

This is the artwork for the card. I think it’s quite nice la.
Because they have only 2 standard designs, i don’t why they design something different for me. =D

Part of what we spent for GDL in those wedding shop.
If you are not those traditional kind, and parents are ok to do without it or just a simple one, be firm when you are in the shop.
Chances are they will tell you EVERYTHING has to be new, so EVERYTHING also must buy. And every item has their meaning one.
I’m glad that we listen to them selectively.
They will also teach you what to do for the wedding custom if you have doubts.

For those who are forgoing the GDL, just check with both parents first. My suggestion is, just do it, can do a minimal one.
Wedding is once a lifetime, it’s an experience to visit relatives together with parents and hubby. =)
Especially those with traditional relatives, you would have to bring cakes and invitation card at least, to their house personally.
NO, no voucher please. It’s not thoughtful at all.

Blue ties for brothers.
Tips: Buy from Bangkok. Ties, ribbon, suspenders just buy from Bangkok!

Was procrastinating to get those floral wrist corsage or bracelet or those ring type with rose.
When i decided to get the ring, there is not enough stock for blue rose.
So decided to do this. Somehow the size doesnt fit too well for some sisters.
But then again, usually wont fit one unless you go for elastic type which i saw 2 weeks before my wedding!!!

This is our wedding car. Standard ribbon colour is pink and purple.
Before that, we already decided NO pink and somehow purple doesnt appeal to us either.
WE WANT BLUE la. Went to a few shops then found the suitable blue ribbon. Not cheap also.

Our morning wedding colour is blue. We are ok with different shades, as long as it is blue.

Wedding eve.
We like the bedsheet. is 400 over thread. really comfy!
And the design not too cheena right!
Best thing is, this is bought seperately, tips here!! you can just buy the quilt cover and pillow covers for the ‘xi’ and other normal red or pink bedsheet.

We bought it from Co’zy. Cant remember to price, but it’s reasonable.

This is Friennie, my MUA. Pretty babe and i really like her.
She is very patience and i think she did a good job to my eyes and hair.
Oh.. she is punctual too!!

Our JP- Dr Phua Tan Tee.
He is Trilingual- English, Mandarin, Hokkien
I like him too!! cause he made us less tense with his jokes.
The crowd were also laughing along with us.
But be prepared cos he can be abit long winded,  just let him know that you have to finish by what time.

He don’t leave us any mobile number. Only email and office number.
But dont worry, he is very prompt to email reply.
I just gave him a call 2 days before our AD to remind him.

Email: PHUA_Tan_Tee@nea.gov.sg
DID: 6731-9575

My ring holder. All thanks to Szesze for lending to me.
Coincidentally, her rom theme is blue and white so i cant keep her design! HAHA!
And Eric figured our an easy way to tie the ring securely, yet one pull we can take out the ring.

Our wedding band from Soo Kee.

Our wedding gift which is shot glass  and poker card. But this poker design is not what i want , pity that they dont have enough stock for ’52 ways to say i love you’ poker card. Talking about this, i am very pissed with my coordinator. If not for him, i would have gotten the poker card i want!
I would ‘dedicate’ a post for him if i got time!

Another coordinator who helped us out instead is really kind, she arranged specially for me and eric for this. =)